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Ended Our Almost 2 Years Relationship
It's been 1 week since we've ended of our relationship. Yes, just the day after we came back from Bali. I was not intended to tell everyone here about it until today.
It's very ridiculous to tell anyone that I've broken up with my gf after we had just came back from our long journey trip. The day after we came back from our trip, we had a quarrel becoz of something. Not the thing happened in Bali, but the thing happened before we went to Bali. I won't discuss here what was the thing, coz that's privacy.
It's not like I didn't see it coming. Our personalities were too different to begin with.
She think she understand me, but actually she's not.
She prefers staying within her comfort zone. I am constantly thinking up new adventures and ideas on what to do.
She's working in Malacca, I am working in Port Dickson. Even though I've called her to work together in PD, but she refused.
It's a miracle how we even lasted so long. Almost 2 years.
Then came the realisation that after almost two years of dating each other, we still never really understood each other, still never seek compromise in our differences, and still feeling unjustified over the things one did for the other.
When presented with an opportunity to salvage the relationship, I chose to let it slide. Better to disappoint now than to disappoint later.
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Dedicate to a friend of mine.
"身为中间人，我们听了其中一方的诉苦也不能转告给别人或另一方知道，这是他们之间的私事。你做为听众，而不应该转告给大家知道。你不是当事人不知道整个事情的发生。有时我们做为聆听者，只听一方面是不够的。有时夫妻吵架，只有他们最了解整个事情的发生，我们做中间人的，听了其中一方也不能转告给别人知道，因为到最后那老公最后也会知道的，如果他们最后闹离婚了，他们怪的不是双方，而是中间人！ 毕竟我们不是当事人，不懂夫妻之间吵架的事，所以我们只有权利听而没有权利学给人听。”
